How do you know he is into you?

How do you know?

I remember my first love, I was in first grade and he was a really smart kid like me. We used to play in the mary-go-round every recess. Until one day a friend close to me decided to tell him I had a crush on him, and well that was the end of it.

I also remember my first boyfriend, I was a senior in high school by then. I met him with a mutual friend we had; he was everything I ever expected him to be. We had a lot of things in common, even drawing and tattoos was a thing for us.

How did I really knew? The answer is "I DIDN'T".  I've been a risk taker my whole life, a really shy and weird one. So one day I decided to call him and started talking about how biologically people get attracted to each other, and yes that was me confessing my boyfriend I had a crush on him.

After that, I just became an expert in risk-taking, and it became easier every time to know when they were interested. OMG, I DECODED MEN! As I grew older not to brag about it but I just never missed with a guy I just always knew. 

Disclaimer: Every superhero finds its kryptonite in life, well I did find mine. I liked him, but never knew with this guy. Now we are great friends what makes it perfect.

My Method

With my years of experience with men, I can actually be CEO of a company and didn't even had to date that much to know. With this, I build up myself a system list that I'm going to share with you today.

1. STARES. If he stares at you, but too shy to talk to you. That's a smooth indicator that can tell you if he is really into you. It is time to take the first move.
2. SOCIAL MEDIA. If he asks you if you have any social media. Well let's be real who doesn't these days, but that is a clear indicator that he is interested in what you do and how you think.
3. BODY LANGUAGE. Learning his body language it's a great way to start. If he hugs you differently than he normally will hug a friend, that's a clue right there. If he holds your hand for no reason at all, there is a little hint. Look for those breadcrumbs.
4. INSTINCTS. So the idea of humans coming from primates is a clear example that men have animal instincts. Where I want to go with this is that men are possessive without even knowing. So the key questions for this one will be WHERE?, WHO?, and WHAT? If they are interested in where you go, who you went with, and what you did. Just your best friend will go all FBI on you, so yup he is probably into you.
5. XIX or XXI. This last one is just for risk-takers like me. I know how some people think that we still live in the XIX century where men were supposed to do everything. From paying in dates to kissing first to saying I LOVE YOU first to flirt to ask out to even send letters first you get the drill. Nowadays it hasn't changed that much they still do all of this, but with a little more technology. But in my case, I live in the XXI century where I'm really opened to share all the roles, after all, isn't that the equality we've been fighting for all these years. So for me kissing first and getting kissed back, tells me more about how the person feels about me. A kiss is more intimate and romantic.

In conclusion, I'm not a wiz in dating that is why I'm Single, but with every experience, I learn a little more.

But how did I learned all this?

The day I decided to stop taking every heartbreak as something bad and negative. Heartbreaks are learning experiences is like going to school every day studying everything there is, and even when you get your Ph.D. there is still more to learn because every person is different.

The idea is never giving up and just start taking risks. 

Make this 2018 a year of LOVE RISK TAKING!

So how do you guys know? What are your indicators?

In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take relationships we were afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make. - Anonymous

Yours truly,

Maria